A mentee is someone who has identified a specific personal or professional goal and who believes that the guidance and help of a mentor – and being held accountable to the mentor – can help them achieve their goal.
The mentees’ potential
Before agreeing to enter into a mentoring relationship, a mentor must believe the prospective mentee possesses qualities that will increase the likelihood that the mentee will benefit from the relationship.
Qualities to look for in mentees
- Clear commitment to being mentored
- Strong initiative to learn and develop
- Strong work ethic
- Willingness to learn about themselves
- Willingness to learn from others’ experience
- Willingness to take responsibility for their career
- Ability to accept feedback and learn from it
- Easy ability to learn
- Commitment to their personal and professional growth
- Flexibility
- Good communication skills
- Good listening skills
- Openness, honesty and trustworthiness
- Patience and ability to take a long-term view
- Realistic expectations
- Respect for other people’s time and effort
- Strong interpersonal skills